This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. It will help to come in armed with everything I'm learning from the different perspectives on here though. I have been looking for a support group on facebook but couldn't find one so I have created one.
To find another job, a more family oriented one, move to another more financially friendly state we are in California and have a fresh start. A lot of people are religious. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. How some find time for Affairs is beyond me!!. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. Secondly, if he's still in residency, he has to prevail and give it his all.